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义道  ·  A Way Out

i was twenty-eight years old with $500 in my bank account. i wanted to kill myself.

i couldn't. my mother had given everything. dying would have been the one act of selfishness i could not commit.

so i stayed alive. and i built this.

i see you. you are not alone

pay what you want. $1 minimum. if you can't pay, take it free — write to me.

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Two books. Same floor.

The Reflection Exercise

20 reflections. no framework. no philosophy. just the stories and the machine that sorted them. if you have 10 minutes and honesty, start here tonight.

A Way Out

the complete doctrine. 8 chapters. the instrument. the mirror. the laws. the timing. for the person who ran the exercise and wants to know why it works.

both are $1 because the person who needs them most has the least to give.


From the book

Nobody wakes up one day and decides, "Hey! Know what, I'm going to make a terrible decision that will fuck up the next ten years of my life."

Absolutely, nobody.

Imagine i told you that at Tiong Bahru, there's a beautiful apartment going for $100k.

Would you get it?

Now what if i told you the last 5 tenants all got murdered in that unit.

Would you still get it?

Now i tell you there's another unit. $120k. Tanjong Pagar.

A billionaire hates his kids. Wants to quickly liquidate his portfolio so he can donate everything before they can keep it.

Would you get that one?

Same person. Three apartments.

Now go back to the decision that put you on the floor. Would you have done the same thing?


The Door

if you ran the exercise.
if something shifted.
if you want to go further.

write to me.

write to me →

tell me where you are. tell me what moved. tell me what's stuck.

i read every one. i reply to every one.

this is not a mailing list. this is not a funnel. this is a man who built these books from $500 on the floor and will walk beside anyone who is willing to walk.

i have a third book. it doesn't have a price. it goes to the person who comes back.

三顾茅庐。